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Did you know that George Washington lost more battles than he won? Many of those were important battles of the Revolutionary War. Yet, America was born out of that war—regardless of how many battles our first President won or lost. It seems that God really is behind the rise and fall of nations.

Liberty comes with a price tag regardless of what country you live in. And with freedom comes the responsibility to serve others and to live peaceably with all men.

Following is the closing prayer for this week in The Divine Hours—Prayers for Summertime by Phyllis Tickle. I think it sums up my heart very well for this 4th of July.

“Lord God Almighty, you have made all the peoples of the earth for your glory, to serve you in freedom and in peace: Give to the people of our country a zeal for justice and the strength of forbearance, that we may use our liberty in accordance with your gracious will; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen.”

 In Him together, Susan Gaddis

Looking for a wedding toast or blessing? Over the years I’ve attended a lot of weddings and given many a wedding card. Finding the right words for a wedding toast brings flashbacks of standing before my peers in a third grade spelling bee—my mind goes blank. Writing a blessing on a wedding card is a little more personal than just signing my name, but finding the right words often burns more brain cells than I have available when I’m trying to get my kids, and the pastor, out the door and to the wedding.

Here are my favorites from my collection of wedding toasts and blessings, gathered over many years of being in ministry. I invite you to jot them down in a journal or keep them in a computer file for easy access—ready for this summer’s crop of weddings. 

Marriage: a community consisting of a master, a mistress, and two slaves—making in all, two.

May you grow old together on one pillow.

See a happy marriage with wholeness of heart, but do not expect to reach the Promised Land without going through some wilderness together.

May your love endure beyond the last sunset.

To the lamp of love—may it burn brightest in the darkest hours and never flicker in the winds of trial.

May your children be blessed with rich parents!

Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success.

There is nothing nobler or more admirable than when two people who see eye to eye keep house as man and wife, confounding their enemies and delighting their friends.

Happy marriages begin when we marry the one we love, and they blossom when we love the one we married.

Here’s to the groom with bride so fair, and here’s to the bride with groom so rare. Here’s to marriage, one soul in two bodies.

Do you have a favorite wedding toast or blessing to contribute?

In Him together, Susan Gaddis

Flag above the USS Arizona Memorial by Thad Zajdowicz

In 1978 Father Eugene Morin wrote a letter to a nephew recalling his experience as a priest in Honolulu during the attack on Pearl Harbor. His assignment was to take care of the dying and wounded at a temporary hospital created at Sacred Hearts Convent School. There are not many of us who will hold such holy moments in our day as Father Morin did on December 7, 1941.

I share his story in honor of the men and women who have served our country—protecting and defending it from forces determined to end our role in history.

“Never in my life have I seen so much human blood flow so freely. A sight I hope and pray I shall never witness again. One thing I must say, and I say this with a great deal of admiration for our young servicemen—every one died a hero’s death. Strange as it may seem, when death approaches we always think of those we love most—those perhaps we may in our youth and forgetfulness have neglected.

The thoughts and memories of all the young men I prepared for death were, I am proud to say, about their dear parents. They wanted them to know how much they loved them and what they meant to them while they were growing up, but could not express in words due to shyness—the love, kindness, and understanding they had in their young hearts.

In all my priestly life, I have never heard such sincere, thoughtful, and prayerful confessions. All of those I attended during the thirty-four hours I worked at Sacred Hearts Convent School went to meet their heavenly Creator well prepared to merit an eternal reward. It is an act of heroic sacrifice to give one’s life for one’s country. During my stay at this temporary hospital, I took care of more than 500 young men. Many of them I gently closed their eyes in death, while some I had to leave, leaving this duty to others.”

You can read Father Morin’s full account of that day at marconews.com.

How have those who have served our country impacted your life?

In Him together, Susan Gaddis

An old story and an old song, but the message is always new. I hope you enjoy this Good Friday story of the Lamb.

In Him together, Susan Gaddis

In the midst of Easter week there are seven facts you don’t want to miss. These facts are easy to overlook. Even the Jews who were waiting for their promised Messiah couldn’t see God’s hidden strategy on that first Easter—they were looking for a Conquering King, not a Suffering Servant.

The disciples of Jesus didn’t see God’s hidden tactics—they ran away and denied ever knowing Jesus.

Satan couldn’t see the fullness of God’s plan—he was on the lookout for a Jewish King/Messiah who would reign over mankind. He had orchestrated his temptations accordingly.

The Jews, disciples, and even Satan missed the connection between the yearly sacrifice of an unblemished lamb and the final sacrifice of a sinless man—the Lamb of God.

Here are seven facts you don’t want to miss: 

 

1.  On a lonely cross, Jesus took on the sins of the world so that in His death sin would also die. It was the only way that humanity could again become right before God (2 Cor. 5:21).

2.  He who had cursed man with death now experienced it Himself (Gal. 3:13).

3.  God the Father and God the Holy Spirit turned away from God the Son, who in His innocence became crucified Sin. In His holiness, God walked away from a cross. In His love, God the Son embraced the cross so that we might be ransomed (John 10:17, 18).

4.  As this innocent Lamb shed His blood, our sins became invalid in the courts of heaven. Neither could death hold Him in the grave, for sin and its death-curse were rendered powerless. He rose triumphant to proclaim freedom to all men who would accept His redeeming work (I Tim. 4:10).

5.  Heaven rang with the declaration that sin and Satan no longer had legal authority over man, for the price of innocent blood had been eternally paid (Rom. 6:6; Heb. 2:14, 15).

6.  Throughout the universe the cry of victory rose as the Prince of Darkness and his forces were paraded in the Triumphant Procession of the King of Kings. Heaven and earth shook with the victory of the Cross. And having disarmed the powers and authorities, He made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them by the cross (Colossians 2:15).

7.  This is how much God loved the world: He gave his Son, his one and only Son. And this is why: so that no one need be destroyed; by believing in him, anyone can have a whole and lasting life. God didn’t go to all the trouble of sending his Son merely to point an accusing finger, telling the world how bad it was. He came to help, to put the world right again. Anyone who trusts in him is acquitted; anyone who refuses to trust him has long since been under the death sentence without knowing it. And why? Because of that person’s failure to believe in the one-of-a-kind Son of God when introduced to him (John 3:16-18 The Message Bible).

That’s the facts. Any comments?

(This post was taken from my book, Intercessors, God’s End-Time Vanguard available at the Eternal Foundations bookstore.)

In Him together, Susan Gaddis

In a busy week of preparing for Easter Sunday service, coloring eggs, and getting my house and yard ready for the traditional family gathering after church, I find it helpful to remember what is real—whether seen or unseen.

In his book, Abba’s Child, Brennan Manning tells the story of a newspaper reporter approaching G.K. Chesterton on a London street corner.

“Sir, I understand that you recently became a Christian. May I ask you one question?”

“Certainly,” replied Chesterton.

“If the risen Christ suddenly appeared at this very moment and stood behind you, what would you do?”

Chesterton looked the reporter squarely in the eye and said, “He is.”

Chesterton knew that Christ was alive and walking with him. He believed it to such a degree that he would not have changed his stride if Jesus suddenly materialized. Real is real, whether seen or unseen.

What is your reality this week?

In Him together, Susan Gaddis

1080084_lunch_timeWell, my journey into Lent and fasting is almost over—at least for this year. I’ve learned that there are many reasons to fast, there are different types of fasts, and that I’d rather not fast. However, two things will keep fasting as a spiritual discipline for me throughout the year:

First, I’ve learned that involving my body through fasting brings a unity to my spiritual life that otherwise is missing. I tend to look at my spiritual journey as an inward process, yet what happens inside must be expressed outwardly for my journey to be a fully human experience. Fasting unites my body with my inner person in a way that complements what is happening in my mind, emotions, will, and spirit.

Second, I’ve learned the necessity of scheduling a fast, but also to respond with spontaneously fasting when a sacred moment arises. “…fasting is what happens to the unified person who encounters a moment so sacred—a death, a consciousness of sin, a need to stand before God in prayer, a desire for holiness and love—that the person simply can’t eat—the moment is too sacred to indulge in food or pleasure.” –Scot McKnight in Fasting.

Lent’s introduction to Easter is soon complete. What have you learned though fasting? Do you plan certain days or seasons to fast? What sacred moments have caused you to spontaneously fast?

In Him together, Susan Gaddis

863359_wine_glassToday begins 40 days of fasting for this Charismatic girl. I’m new to the practice of Lent, but I thought I’d jump in with full intentions and inner resolve to fast. I’m reading as much as my brain can digest pertaining to this ancient spiritual practice as information tends to facilitate my resolve. It also helps that my husband has called our church to fast—I am not alone in my pain.

I’ll be sharing things I am learning in some of my posts during the next 40 days, but for a start, here are 5 things you should know about fasting to survive the backtalk your stomach will give you:

1. When a Christ follower desires to grow closer to God or to identify with the things that grab God’s attention, he or she will fast. Throughout the Bible we find stories of men and women fasting in some form or another. Church history contains additional stories of our fathers and mothers in the faith setting aside time to live a fasted life.

2. Our body communicates what we value by responding appropriately. When my father died, I cried. I also didn’t eat for days. My husband, a very funny man, beams when I laugh at his antics. Check my day planner—I schedule eight hours of sleep at night because I value a fresh mind and clear thinking when I rise at 5:00 to write. Walking up and down my street keeps me healthy so I can dance at my grandchildren’s weddings.

For much of my life, the closest I’ve come to integrating my body with my spirit and soul is when I raise my hands in worship or pray aloud. Have you ever noticed that in some cultures people wail when a friend dies or position themselves horizontally on the floor during prayer? I have never heard wailing at a funeral. Yet, raising my hands in worship, putting my face on the carpet to pray, and wailing at a funeral are appropriate, physical expressions of what I value—worship, prayer, and people.

In his book, Fasting, Scot McKnight comments, “The Bible, because it advocates clearly that the person—heart, soul, mind, spirit, body—is embodied as a unity, assumes that fasting as body talk is inevitable.”

3. There are different kinds of fasts. Normally, a biblical fast involves abstaining from food from sunup to sundown. Sometimes a fast means going without food and water for 24 hours or longer (see Acts 9:9).

During Lent, many follow an abstinent fast by denying themselves certain foods that otherwise would be acceptable. A Daniel fast would be an example of this type of fasting. Daniel and his friends abstained from rich foods and consumed only vegetables and water during their training for the king’s service (see Daniel 1).

4. Fasting is not easy. If fasting was undemanding it would not represent your body identifying with the things that break God’s heart. So, expect the discomfort and hunger pains to be your voice for grieving  the lack of the Kingdom on earth.

5. Fasting involves planning. Depending on my chosen fast, I may not dine out much during these 40 days. Since my sons-still-living-at-home crowd is currently feasting, the refrigerator needs to contain man-food. I’ll plan ahead to avoid frustration and a negative reputation as a mother.

I can’t think of many spiritual practices that so invade our daily life as much as fasting. The rewards are worth it, but that discussion is for another post.

Are you fasting for Lent? If so, what does your fast look like? What is your body identifying with and what is it saying through your chosen fast? Share your thoughts with us in the comment section below.

In Him together, Susan Gaddis

For more information on this subject, click on Scot McKnight’s book Fasting in the far right sidebar.

1137562_book_of_love_1This year finances are tight, so we are spending Valentine’s Day at home—keeping it simple, special, and inexpensive. Here are my plans, but don’t tell Tom!

Here are 5 Ways to Make Valentine’s Day Simple

 

1.  Simple—Buy an inexpensive journal from the Dollar Store and begin a Valentine’s Journal for the love of your life. List the ways this person blesses you, reminds you of Jesus, and deepens your spiritual journey.

Record a favorite memory or the words to a song that speaks of your relationship. Tape a photo onto one of the pages or add the menu from the coffee shop you frequent together.

A Scripture from Song of Solomon or a poem placed here and there throughout the journal gives the book a romantic feel. Include a note in the front of the journal explaining your intentions of adding to the book in the years ahead.

2.  Simple—Enrich the atmosphere by using your finest dishes for a home cooked, special dinner and adding flowers or candles to the table. Pull out a CD you haven’t listened to in ages and play it for background music during the evening. You can also choose the genre of music that appeals to you on Pandora and play it free from your laptop. Eat, dance, and share the memories that mark your relationship as special.

3.  Simple—Do an Internet search for romantic quotes you can copy onto slips of paper. Leave these scattered around the house for your lover to find. For example, tape one to the bathroom mirror, another to the closet door, leave some on the bed pillow and put several on your dinner plates.

4.  Simple—Arrange for the children to be gone. We have given our teenagers several options for the evening—all away from home. If you have younger children, put them to bed early or see if a friend will take them for a few hours. If needed, trade childcare with another couple and celebrate Valentine’s Day on separate days. This way each couple can enjoy an evening free of the responsibility of children.

5.  Simple—Pray. Ask the Lord to bless your time together and honor it with his presence. After all, he is the Lover of your soul and your eternal Bridegroom. I think he knows a thing or two about romance!

What unique ideas can you add to this list? What Valentine’s Day traditions can you share with us? Write your thoughts in the comment section below. We would love to hear from you.

In Him together, Susan Gaddis

1128278_timeWhat is in your closet? Do you have things in storage that you intend to use, but can’t seem to find the time to dig them out? Do you acquire items that eat up valuable space in your house or shed?

My dad did. We found clocks in his storage shed after his death—lots of clocks. Dad thought the clocks would be worth something someday, but that has not been the case. Missing parts devalue some antique clocks and the reproductions assess at a low price.

What am I suppose to do with 18 clocks? There were over 52 to begin with, but after distributing them between siblings, I ended up with 18 of my father’s clocks.

I have no use for so many clocks, nor do I want to store them for my children to stumble upon after my death. So far, I’ve sold some on Craig’s List, given others as gifts to children, and kept two for myself.

Dad’s clock collection sat in storage for over 20 years—not forgotten, just ignored. Other interests and projects required his attention until ill health consumed his life.

This year I’m rummaging through my valuables and giving them as gifts to my children and grandchildren. More will be given in the years ahead.

Yes, my descendants would still end up with them eventually, but why wait until I’m gone? The joy in a granddaughter’s eyes is worth the English tea cup and saucer nestled in the box along with a fresh bag of chocolate mint tea. Do I want to miss the appreciation of a son receiving his grandfather’s pocket watch and chain?

Bottom line—I can’t afford to ignore my stored treasures. They provide no joy as long as they sit on a dark shelf and eat up valuable storage space. Stored treasures are meant to become gifts of the heart.

What’s in your closet?

In Him together, Susan Gaddis

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